tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post365757866237192338..comments2023-11-05T22:12:49.545+11:00Comments on World. Oyster. Stage.: FridayMelbahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02257719342445833725noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-61641290557077312352013-05-20T21:38:15.948+10:002013-05-20T21:38:15.948+10:00If young people are taking their cues from porn, t...If young people are taking their cues from porn, then I'd say it's to be expected.<br /><br />My understanding is the only people who perform cunnilingus in pornography these days is women.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-13595513142172278762013-05-20T21:22:05.438+10:002013-05-20T21:22:05.438+10:00Thanks Little Hat. Also I meant to say in my last ...Thanks Little Hat. Also I meant to say in my last post above, 'oral sex' not 'real sex' in the first mention, as in 'oral sex can be very one-sided...'<br /><br />Just to clarify, you know.Melbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02257719342445833725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-42060597134424677502013-05-20T19:04:37.447+10:002013-05-20T19:04:37.447+10:00The bit that made me laugh in these excahnges is t...The bit that made me laugh in these excahnges is the image of "when the whole thing exploded..."<br /><br />Great teachers, and to join you in calling it like it is, I was one, are great communicators and great provocateurs. I used to love watching my (year 4)9 year olds get excited about topics we covered. I used lots of drama games and drawing. I can remember that feeling after a great lesson.<br /><br />As for Geelong - oh well you lose some and I gain some. I refer to the Lions and the Dons.Steve Capelinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14838386764407644146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-32491084846956173322013-05-20T08:08:36.914+10:002013-05-20T08:08:36.914+10:00This comment has been removed by the author.Melbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02257719342445833725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-21876313031253281462013-05-20T08:08:32.199+10:002013-05-20T08:08:32.199+10:00Hi Suze, no remain unpublished novel wise... here&...Hi Suze, no remain unpublished novel wise... here's hoping soon some news.<br /><br />Interesting back and forth about sex, appreciate the contributions. Real sex can be very one-sided and is so with young ppl especially, research shows it's increasing a lot (compared to slight increases over time in rates of intercourse) female > male more than the other way around (but that's probably not new). Bill Clinton tried to argue it wasn't real sex as in 'I did not have sex with that woman' - poor Lewinsky. I remember feeling sorry for her when that whole thing exploded, she came off badly and he... well, he's fine.<br /><br />Off to teach Year 7s this morning - babies!Melbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02257719342445833725noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-79244931095623037032013-05-18T17:09:14.087+10:002013-05-18T17:09:14.087+10:00Now you've got me snickering. I'm thinking...Now you've got me snickering. I'm thinking about how much some blokes sook when it comes to one-finger prostate examinations. <br /><br />Oral sex can be completely reciprocal, so long as the height difference isn't too great. But also, any form of sex can feel one-sided and nonreciprocal, with the other party "going through the motions". Something you may have experienced once or twice, no? Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-59171506359748759812013-05-18T15:41:15.078+10:002013-05-18T15:41:15.078+10:00Your penis-speculum image makes me snicker. I'...Your penis-speculum image makes me snicker. I'd love to close a cold speculum around that penis and show men what it feels like. No, I don't believe "real sex" means with a penis, especially in regards to girl on girl. But I imagine SOME sort of reciprocation must be involved before I'd consider it Real Sex. Oral sex can be very one-sided (how many BJs have I given compared to what I've got back?), so I guess that's one of the reasons why it could be dismissed as Not Real Sex. suze2000https://www.blogger.com/profile/14654931317486825200noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-87060726299633873412013-05-18T13:28:01.426+10:002013-05-18T13:28:01.426+10:00I think the most recent Oglaf is somewhat relevant...I think the most recent <a href="http://oglaf.com/tibia/" rel="nofollow">Oglaf</a> is somewhat relevant.<br /><br />That, and I just like sharing Oglaf comics with people.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-29085404345943326142013-05-18T09:31:30.465+10:002013-05-18T09:31:30.465+10:00Well, I think part of the role of an educator some...Well, I think part of the role of an educator sometimes is to make students think about why the things they think are black and white aren't so much. If oral sex doesn't cut it, what is it that lesbians can do that is "real" sex? Does "real" sex mean with a penis? Does it have to be in a specific orifice? I had a similar discussion with someone about this topic once and argued them down to the farcical position that <i>"Even if a woman had oral and anal sex thousands of times (but no vaginal penetration) she was still a virgin. But if she was to open her vagina with, say, a speculum, and the tip of a penis was to pass the outermost threshold (without making physical contact) and then immediately withdrew, that would constitute loss of virginity"</i>. Obviously this is silly, but I think it also helps to show how silly it is to try and define things like "real" sex; which is something youngsters probably should be having a good think about if this seems important to them. <br /><br />And I think Melbs is presently a book-publishing virgin. Which is part of the excitement at the moment, no?<br /><br />Also, who ended up celebrating after the footy, the 2 or the 5?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13506151.post-74167978999503590762013-05-17T21:34:57.331+10:002013-05-17T21:34:57.331+10:00I read a dirty book as a child (I know... shhh! I ...I read a dirty book as a child (I know... shhh! I think Mum never found out) in which a character wrote in her diary about losing her virginity on a blanket under the stars and the multiple assignations for sex afterwards. The mother who found the diary was more shocked about the lover in question turning out to be a woman than the girl's teacher. Anyway, I agree that oral sex is a sex act, but I don't think that's IT even for lesbians, and we know that gay men don't stop at that, so I tend to agree with the kids that it's not "real" sex. The other thing is, at their age, there's soooo much pressure about losing virginity/not losing virginity and everything in between, the distinctions on sex acts would be very black and white for them. <br /><br />Sorry about the lack of news on your book. I feel embarrassed to ask as I possibly should know this, but is it your first (publishable) book or should I already be able to find you in my local independent bookshop? suze2000https://www.blogger.com/profile/14654931317486825200noreply@blogger.com